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Say your spontaneous husband has trouble staying on schedule.
Reeves suggests picking your battles: You may need him to pick the kids up on time, but let his habit of being late for dinner go.
"When a husband throws himself into work or a hobby, it isn't to ignore family, but to ground himself for his overall happiness," says Bennett.
That said, balance is key: His passion shouldn't deny you regular family time or a weekly date night.
"Give him the chance to feel your absence from time to time," she says.
"He'll react by getting back into courting behavior and letting you know he appreciates you." Then, you can do something you both enjoy together, which allows you to create fun memories—and Giving silent treatment and withholding affection (especially sex) in order to get your way is juvenile and counterintuitive: Instead of reacting to you, your husband will likely retreat.
"Men and women tend to have different goals with communication, with men concerned about identifying and fixing problems, and women expressing feelings and connecting emotionally, says relationship expert David Bennett, author of Men—and many of their wives, too—can't help but notice a beautiful woman, says relationship coach Jason Nik, and it's unreasonable to expect your husband to divert his glance whenever a pretty female walks by.
"Looking is natural, and it's not even unhealthy as long as it's looking," Nik says.
But remember that a trait you loathe in your husband may be the flip-side of one you love, says South Florida–based licensed marriage and family therapist Nakya Reeves.Here, experts draw the line between what's acceptable and what's simply asking too much.1. Whatever your issue is with his mother—maybe he sometimes puts her first over you or you two simply don't get along—drop it for your husband's (and your relationship's) sake.She is, after all, the reason he exists in the first place.Being passive-aggressive "is one of the most destructive forms of relationship communication— it creates a negative cycle that only gets worse and creates anger and resentment," Reeves explains.If you feel like your husband owes you an apology, don't make your feelings sound less important than they are (passive), and don't attack him (aggressive), Reeves says.