Dating brother in law
Images of you with their late daughter will be hard to keep from their minds when they see you coupled with their younger child.I wish you’d said more about the reason for the strained relations with your in-laws.Am I wrong for feeling so indifferent toward this relationship now?All we have left is companionship, but I want more.Dear Nothing, I can understand how crushing it must be to nurture a secret plan to someday get you and your beloved (or maybe let’s call him Mr.
We’re experienced people—I’m 44 and he’s 46—so I can’t be his first or only sexual partner, wife, mother of his child, etc.
But neither of you should feel you need to justify yourselves or that you’ve crossed some boundary.
I had a letter last year from a man whose older wife had died and whose stepdaughter wanted to become his lover. But you and your love don’t have anything to be ashamed of, so stop acting as if you do.
Hearing this news will be an emotional event for them, so I think your fiancée-to-be should do them the courtesy of breaking it to them alone.
Your late wife’s sister does owe her parents an apology for not being more open with them sooner.