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This was an improvement over just getting on and humping in a disconnected way, but not by much.
This has left us with a currently accepted norm for sex that is really not that much elevated from the act than jerking off while watching porn.
She is looking for a commitment to bring a depth of presence (high quality attentiveness/consciousness) to all he does, not bringing her stuff and traditional tokens of commitment.
She desires REAL commitment, and a man that knows what the fuck she means by that, instead of being triggered and frightened off, assuming she wants the traditional crap.
She will not choose a shut-down, inhibited man unless she is taking him on as a personal project as a donation to him and the world, or to coach him for hire.
This well-intentioned shift in how men showed up with women sexually ended up becoming yet another way for externally-referenced men to shut a woman down.
It became a new way for men to relate to women with excessive neediness to gain her approval that seemed endorsed by the powers-that-be of the time.
It is draining on her to be around closed people, especially inhibited men.
She will do her best to avoid men that are not well on their way on a sincere quest to be free men themselves.