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Below, learn why authenticity is so critical to dating, and how a milkshake could help you find your next bae.Alysha Jeney: With our generation being so used to instant gratification, and used to being so easily accessible to each other, there’s a false sense of connection.She sees about 20 to 25 clients per week, mostly couples but many individuals, too, and the majority of her clients are young — age 25 to 33.The number one thing single millennials are struggling with?AJ: I think a genuine connection takes time to facilitate; you have to take time to nurture a foundation between two people where there is emotional safety.If you don’t have that, it’s really hard to be vulnerable with someone and be authentic, and to develop that genuine connection with someone.AJ: I think that question’s loaded, because there’s so much that they can quote-unquote “do” on the practical end, [for example] maybe avoid Tinder or certain platforms that are instant, instant, instant.But I think on the emotional end, what I try to help my clients unpack is what is it that they really even want? And how much of that can they provide for themselves?
I think with my particular caseload, [men and women equally] want to have good-quality relationships, but don’t necessarily know how to find it.
Between fuccbois on Tinder and self-esteem killing trolls on social media, the modern dating world can be savage.
That’s why we decided to ask an expert for some millennial dating advice.
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