I am dating a recovering alcoholic Telugu girls on video chat
He spoils me in every way and I love him very much. Then earlier this week I was on the computer again and his work email was up. 99.9% was work, but there was 3 email exchanges that he had had with a brief girlfriend back in the states that I opened – he had just written them day before. She had originally contacted him, asking him how he was.He started to bring up history – most shockingly, he told her that HE WAS NOT MARRIED, but he “lived with a girl”.I am going to get tested for all STDs next week to make sure that I’m safe. Most importantly, the number one reason that you should start treatment and healing is FOR YOURSELF.Our marriage and relationship is a bonus and also can be reasons for seeking help, but you cannot live like this forever, and that’s the reason you need help.YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO SET BOUNDARIES AND ABIDE BY THOSE BOUNDARIES.COUNSELING: You have to accept right now that counseling may have to be a part of your life for a very long time, and by long time, I mean years.
Long story short, we never sought therapy for it and I forgave him because I didn’t think he had any kind of addiction – I had never even heard of a sex addict. A year ago, I was visiting the US for 2 weeks and came back and was on the computer when I saw the history of web pages, I saw that he was on a pornography website.
I have read so many stories on your site, so may so eerily similar to mind and I am haunted by the possibility that this thing will begin to unravel more. I want hope that I can move on either by myself (if I divorce) or with him (if I decide to stay). ), and god bless you for being so strong and creating such a wonderful site. I do not trust or believe anything that comes out of your mouth. I do not believe that you believe that you have a problem.
I am scared that he is not telling me the truth, so I have to assume the worst – though he claims he never physically cheated on me, I don’t believe him. I hope that counseling and time will help you see that you do have a problem and you can begin the healing process.
I confronted him again and he swore that he was just looking and he doesn’t do this regularly.
I stupidly believed, as I genuinely thought that this man had the heart of a saint – warm, kind, just a dream, really.