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So, if you are a young girl looking at the life of a mu’min versus the life of the dominant culture, the dominant culture may seem more alluring and look to have more opportunities than the mu’min life.
We should not be surprised if we continue on this path that in another generation we end up with a community who is either not getting married or having more sisters marrying outside their faith and children who become adults who think that having children on their own is the ideal instead of in a two-parent home,” writes Heather-Laird Jackson.
Another phenomenon faced by several ethnic communities is that many educated men marry outside of their community, race and religion.
They are not as bound by the ticking biological clock factor and can usually (not always) find a wife when they get serious about marriage.
Adherence to cultural norms and expectations, generational disparity and the neglect of the Islamic standard for the choice of partners are also hurdles single American Muslims face.
There is an extraordinary number of very educated women in their thirties and above who have not found a spouse.
“For myself, being financially ready [is important] because it is such a big responsibility, starting a new family,” says Farhan, 33, of Philadelphia, PA.
If a single Muslim woman of any age expresses interest in getting married she has to deal with the stigma of appearing desperate.Nawaz Khan*, in his 70s, has coffee with his wife in the lobby of the Walter E. He is in tears, worried about his very well-educated daughter’s prospects of finding a husband. He is amongst the many worried parents at the ISNA convention.At any Muslim marriage event, there are more females attendees than males.Among 30-year-olds in 2000, according to data from the United States Census Bureau, fewer than half of the women and one-third of the men had done so.Culturally, American society as a whole is seeing this trend of delayed marriages.