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Beyond my own anecdotal assumptions, I also have many 50-year-old friends (and readers) across the country, who are well acquainted with the older man-younger woman phenomenon – even among aging boomers. “Not just a younger body in bed, but a trophy on the arm, a woman who is less likely to contradict him, a woman less likely to compete with him even inadvertently, and less need to compromise.
“Why would a man want a woman he can talk with intelligently? I looked at him and raised my eyebrows as he began to smirk. Most of these middle-aged men have been married before, and they view the younger woman as easier, lighter, and it feels good… But I love all models.” As nice as that is to hear, in my experience, he is the exception.
First, there is the fact that before meeting him, I spent nearly seven years on and off dating sites – and on two continents. In the US, I was likely to hear from men 10 to 20 years older.
“Why do you think so many women lie about their age – especially online – regardless of how they look or feel? The anonymous woman, whose blog is called The Plankton, is not alone in believing that there are problems specific to being a single woman in middle age.
” And he is indeed a rarity, which I would like to back up with numbers, though finding the appropriate statistics remains a challenge. A survey this month found eight out of 10 women over 50 think they have become invisible to men. The men who are honest, and unlike my European gentleman friend, more likely to want what theoretically promises to be an easier pairing, at least temporarily? (We do.) Nor am I saying that practical matters like health and finance aren’t important.
I dare say, this is more than “thinking” we dwell in no man’s land, or as the author of The Plankton puts it quite colorfully, “a plankton on the food chain of sexuality and the prospect of a relationship.” So just what are those numbers? Sure, we have Huff Post on Dating Dealbreakers for the over 50 crowd – apparently hygiene is more of a concern than one might think – and may offer the recommendation not to “get hung up on chronological age,” but don’t we know better? This thought continues to tumble around in my mind: When older men trade in the original model for younger women, where does that leave the women they discard? There are those who have always believed that nice guys finish last – and the same goes for nice women. They chase a nip here, a tuck there – my place is not to judge (though I have my opinions); what saddens me is when nothing ever feels like it’s enough, and the surgeons get rich off our youth-obsessed culture. (They are.) I’m not saying it’s impossible to find someone to love who is your contemporary.
When they tell you that they don’t want these things they are lying! Early 40’s with small children – although these women are closer to your age (not really) they are at a completely different stage.
They are raising small kids and are looking for someone to be a partner.