Life in your 40's is a whole new deal - especially when you find yourself single after many years of not always domestic bliss.I was told I should share my experiences because in true Kathy fashion - it usually ends with ONLY ME.Nice shoes are a must as women will often judge men by their shoes. Actions speak louder than words so show her how great you are by the way you treat her. Make a woman feel safe; feeling secure and safe are definitely a BIG TURN ON for women. Women want to know that you're interested in more than just sex.Refrain from any sexual advancement for the first 2-3 dates unless she's the initiator and just roaring to go.
It's the thought that counts and believe me it goes a long way. Don't always be available but do send a little message once in a while to say hello and letting them know that you're thinking of them. If you show signs of dishonesty in the beginning, you will break the trust factor and the relationship may never progress in a healthy manner.Does that mean it's wrong to have high expectations?No of course not, but do we really even know what we want?Make a woman feel that she is special and the centre of your universe.I know it can be difficult at times but what can I say, this is how woman are wired. Never show up to a woman's house in the beginning stages without a little something; it doesn't have to be anything expensive.