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You would think it is stalking, they think it’s being persistent.“Russian men act like your boyfriend from the very beginning,” she writes.This is her exact wording: Girls, apparently, are used to relentless pursuits, and unless they feel you are putting “all in”, they are not convinced that you are really interested.A man who never cheated on his second half is looked at with disdain, including his one-and-only (is he not man enough? Having a “wandering penis” (what an epithet) wasn’t something that a young feminist from New York could manage, although this isn’t the main reason she is no longer into dating comrades from her native land.“Russian society is a lot more forgiving when it comes to men cheating, lying or making decisions without consulting their partners,” agrees Dray.In Russia, females are taught to take it easy and realize it’s something that will happen in the course of a relationships.The social responsibility of males to provide for their females is not only materialistic in the former Soviet Union, states she, but more alike paternal duty, where a woman is looked after by someone responsible for her, because it’s his moral obligation and delight.Bruk also expresses her surprise at “disintegration of male hygiene and work ethics”, citing the poor gender ratios as the reason.
Petersburg’s ladies] you pluck your own eyebrows and only get a facial once a month, [they] will look at you as though you have just clawed your way out of a swamp,” confesses Bruk. And the main reason why it is important is to attract and keep a boyfriend or a husband.“Women in Russia are hardly ever seen without high heels or makeup and are always proud of their sensuality and appearance,” writes Tammy Dray in her article for (Today young girls are wearing flats more often and style “casual” incorporating torn jeans and Converse sneakers is becoming a new fashion fad, so you may not see Russian ladies in compulsory high heels for much longer.)“These insurmountable standards of beauty can largely be credited to the fact that there are more women than men,” admits Bruk.“Russian men are patriarchal alpha males,” insists she, declaring openly that at first it is a huge turn-on.She grew up in the States but due to her heritage speaks fluent Russian.Her confession about dating Russian men is a must read for anyone wondering about courtship customs and rituals in the countries of the post-USSR.“I love (and hate) dating Russian men“, states Diana, and then goes on to explain why.The downside of the powerful male taking what he wants?Bruk admits that Russian men still follow the egotistical mentality that “sex is a favor that women do for men”, which means that if a girl enjoys sex, she is looked at as a nymphomaniac.